Facts of Life ~ Sexual Education ~ Gays are
aren't sick or crazy, gays are simply gay
can be very cheerful indeed.
I definitively don't agree with the belief that homosexuality is to be
cured. I'm not one of them, so I can't offer their perspective; but I
try to understand instead to judge
I respect their right to follow their heart.
I'll demonstrate that it's healthy, sane, helpful and
from biological, psychological, social and even religious
If it's some sort of illness or about choice, then what about the people
who are born with both sexes? (They get butchered!) It's
just how they developed.
More about Hermaphrodite at dictionary
10 hermaphrodite facts and famous hermaphrodites
being in the wide range between genders stereotypes is obvious with mixed
genitals, at other times you need to examine the internal body, it can
simply be an androgynous
look, or you just know deep down how you feel; with your unexpected talents,
likings... or orientation.
No one is an absolute
is more complex than concepts
If something went wrong with their hormonal balance in the womb (like
taking the pill full of female hormones while pregnant of a boy...) and
the brain developed out of sync with the sexual organs; then
it's too late now
It's probably nature's way (or your god's will) to
control our overpopulation problem
(the pill kills women) so we
won't have to feed on artificial foods... (It’s killing us!)
Nature loves to explore possibilities; that's how we evolved. Regardless
of being created or not, we still do. Just like children, we grow, but
on a greater social scale. Our body adapts to what needs to be done through
are you to know your god's will? There's nothing against homosexuality
in the 10 commandments
But there's "you shall not covet your neighbor's wife" and yet
he took Joseph's to make his son; without his permission. What's up with
that!? He can’t deny marriage for gays
after doing way worst.
Let them celebrate their love and loyalty!
Even if something against it was written in your holy book, god didn't write
that himself, maybe people misunderstood him.
Times change and God can change his mind too.
Maybe he wants everyone to be gay so humanity will leave Earth and join
him in heaven. But more likely to stop us from destroying his creation,
and limit our population so we won't starve, plagues didn't seem to work.
If he created all things, then he created gays too.
If his will is absolute, then he wants them or they'd be bursting into
If we were created in his image, then maybe God is gay; after all there's
no mention of a woman, ever. God, the holy spirit who made his son with
the surrogate Mary... the whole holy trinity, they're
But one thing for sure: if he loves all his children, then God
loves gays too.
fruitless unions unions were bad when we were dying like flies and everyone
had to do their share to perpetuate the race. But now we're way too many
so gays are doing a public service with their voluntary
. Just look at this heartbreaking tragedy quoted from
"The Chinese are restricted by law to having only
, which was part of the great tragedy
of the earthquake as many families lost their only child in the school
collapses. Also that restriction is why so many Chinese
are available for adoption
to US couples. In China, boys are still more highly prized than girls
and far too often, if the first child is a girl they will abandon her
or give her to an orphanage in the hopes that their one child will be
a boy." How
to adopt a baby from china
If women had the same rights and sexism wasn't accepted, there wouldn't
be so many abandoned little girls. It's best to have 2 daddies or 2 mommies
than no one in the world... Divorced heterosexuals throwing the children
at each other like a ball sure aren't giving them a safe and stable environment!
Gays can't have their own babies; but they can help
balance the world
; by welcoming lovingly those abandoned children,
and correct the mistakes done by heterosexuals
an environment with not enough partners of the opposite sex, even animals
will turn to their own; it happens in jails and in my aquarium of only
male guppies. It's not because they're gay but because
they're sexual beings
. It's natural.
They will fill the urges the best way they can; because the drive to procreate
life is a strong one, even when there’s no possibilities of a result.
"Life will find a way."
Some frogs and the female of guppy fishes can even change sex to
make it possible. I have a hard time sorting them because they can change
hen they become teenagers; but even adults can. Hermaphrodite
at guppies forum.
Human fetus all start as females
, an extra chromosome
make them devellop as males.
There are only slight differences between genders, we're just positioned
differently with different sizes, but everything is there for both.
That’s why men have nipples, the female’s clitoris is an undeveloped
penis, ovaries descend into testicles for males, plus we all have both
a rational and emotional brains. We’re the
We all have the hormones of both genders and the amount
varies between people.
"The ovaries and testicles make the majority of sex hormones;
but the adrenal glands also make small amounts of testosterone and estrogen."
"The ovaries make testosterone, but most of it is immediately converted
to estrogen, so in women the adrenal glands are the primary source for
testosterone. (...) When women have too much adrenal-derived testosterone,
they suffer from masculinization or virilization, encompassing a suite
of (masculine) traits (...) and acne". List at livestrong
"Elevated estrogen levels really do cause men to look, and somewhat
act, more like women and less like men." More effects at criticalbench
such as erectile dysfunction. Xenoestrogens
(wiki) imitates female hormones, they leak from plastic and other horrors;
and are found in soy. More in a very interesting article: Newest
research on why you should avoid soy
at mercola. Their isoflavones,
genistein and diadzen are toxic. They disrupt the endocrine system, which
includes the gonads (ovaries/testicles). "An infant exclusively fed
soy formula receives the estrogenic equivalent of at least five birth
control pills per day. (...) Male infants undergo a testosterone surge
during the first few months of life (...) which programs (...) patterns
in the brain characteristic of male behavior."
If they were meant to be this way, or if the products of society altered
their body; their persecution is terrible. Either
way, gays are not to blame.
They are the way they are and nothing
can or should change that. Only acceptance
can help now.
Popularity doesn't make something better. A lifestyle that can help someone's
health might kill another. Facts can vary, and opinions aren't even facts.
Typically, women seem to specialize their right emotional brain, and men
the left rational one (info at psychology
but it's not always the case. Even if we favor one brain more, like hands,
we all use both sides
. Some people are left
handed and a few are even ambidextrous. It's the same for the brains:
the majority of each gender might have similarities, but everyone
There are an infinite
number of combinations within people, as many
as there are possibilities, reasons, emotions, lives and more.
A woman skilled with tools and a man talented at painting beauty aren't
defective, diseased or crazy. So why not for sexual orientation as well.
If a fully grown man suddenly grow breasts or a woman a beard; maybe they
suffer from adrenal fatigue and the rest of their endocrine system suffers
along. But otherwise, it's just how they are born and who they are meant
to be. Helping someone to heal the body's suffering is great, but forcefully
denying people their very mind, feelings and identity
is a crime against them and their "God given" & law inforced
Even if it was a choice, to be in harmony with their needs, there is no
fault to be judged, no harm done. As long as they do it with respect,
they deserve the same.
They have the right to live and stay true
to their own existence, the best way they can.
So it's natural to be gay because being a minority
doesn't make them bad.
But discriminating, against their different
reason to be, makes you intolerant and that's way worst because it hurts
people. They're not this way to aggravate you
and some will be more horrified than you'll ever be: they will have to
live it everyday for the rest of their lives. No matter how they will
choose to handle it, freely or in denial, they will suffer for it from
others or within themselves. I admire their courage.
Your primal brain guides you instinctively
only way that he knows how; the way that he developed. He holds the purpose
of survival so he's stronger than willpower itself
It's okay to be mislead or mistaken, no
one is perfect. Good can still come out of it.
We can only do our best and sometimes our only choice is the lesser of
two evils. Serenely accepting to be gay is less terrible than being in
denial with a broken heart everyday of your life.
Heterosexuals don't have much of a choice, homosexuals don't either. Going
against your own nature is unthinkable and outraging for anyone, but life
. Respect life.
to force your ways on others is cruel and clearly disgusting.
Not everyone is biologically able to have children.
Others can't for various reasons such as financial, emotional fragility,
physical frailty, the fear of seeing their child suffer from an inherited
illness, the dread of transmitting their diseases (aids), or the inability
to find a suitable partner for them who'd also be a good father for the
kids. Some don't want them or shouldn't have any.
But everyone have the right to be loved, even
if babies don't come out of it.
Two gay couples of different genders can form a partnership and share
genetic materials to unite two families
heterosexuals can end up in broken families, sometimes for not being able
to bear hiding who they are anymore, like their homosexuality, or anything
else trying to please at the peril of their own identity. Couples based
on honesty and sharing their real needs
more reasons to last longer. Acceptance is better
than trying to change what cannot; there would be less fights. It’s
best for the children.
I think it's perfectly rational
for a woman
to prefer the company and affection of another; over a misogynic man who'll
beat and rape her as if she was an object.
If you force a gay man to despise his sexual orientation and be with a
woman that he doesn't love; his heart will be too full of hatred against
parts of his identity to be able to love anyone and he won't be able to
treat her well, with the affection that she deserves. It won't be fair
Men are horny much more often, getting together is logical
If you force a lesbian to do "her duty to a male just like everybody
else" she won't have sexual desires and the man will feel inadequate,
humiliated and frustrated. Even if he gets her in bed, there won't be
passion. He probably will cheat, that will break the marriage, and fights
will traumatize the children who will find a way to blame themselves.
It won't be pleasant for anyone.
A relationship blooms best when based on trust, love,
mutual respect & understanding; and desire
. But even when you
have it all it's still hard work to build a relationship. You can't force
your heart no matter how much you force your body. That's just sad when
they're not in harmony
. It's a recipe for
The ideal varies for everybody and situations, it depends on our needs,
and even those change as you walk your own paths of life. Sometimes couple
ends simply because they moved in different directions, but the company
they shared helping each other will always remain precious. Reducing that
to two crotches is missing so much of the point and value of a couple.
Kids can be adopted, but you can't adopt the sexual orientation of someone
else, not if you wish to stay true to yourself
That's something important to teach to children and it will make you a
We used to make couples to share the unique strengths of each gender,
but we're such a big society sharing many skills that
it’s not crucial anymore
Now sexuality is more about pleasure than making babies
it's a logical outcome to no longer be limited by the crotch in choosing
a partner to share your life with
if you don't want children, but there's so many unwanted ones from heterosexuals
that it's even helpful.
Homosexuals are suffering from discrimination
it's not a disease. Intolerance, prejudices and bullying are way more
sickening. People will invent justifications against any differences but
there's no excuse to do this.
Synonyms of discrimination: unfairness and inequity
That's all they want by trying to raise awareness, not to recruit people
in some sort of sect; but to have the same equal and far right to express
affection in public; without being assaulted mentally or physically.
Believing that it has to be cured can only worsen the stigma. Accepting
our natural differences
is already hard enough
for anyone without being called sick!
Leave gays alone.
They're this way for a reason, if you can't understand, ask; if you don't
want to, shut up!
They’re not hurting anyone.
do don’t do it because they’re gays but because they’re
just human too.
Stop thinking they're depraved because heterosexuals do anal too! Some
gays will find it gross too and stay a virgin all
, even if they build a relationship.
Don't waste precious hatred that you could be using
for rapists instead!
It's not even because they're gays, you just want to look down on someone
to feel less bad about yourself. That's not the way, even if it's not
against yourself anymore, you still feel hatred. Admit your flaws and
have compassion for yourself
; then you'll
have it for others.
If you don't like what I said, don't use it as an excuse to hate homosexuals
even more, because I'm not. I am obsessed with scientific biology and
gays make sense
. The psychological aspect of
it is valid as well.
With how men treated me as a woman, I really wish I could be a lesbian.
Seeing how shallow publicities turned most women into, if I was a man
I'd probably still wish to be gay. But it's not a choice, even if you
can get curious, trying won't change who you are meant
The stigma is probably worst for gay men than women. Heterosexual men
sure don't appreciate their own unpleasant seduction techniques when they're
on the receiving end... Harassing someone to invade their very body is
horrifying for every gender... Anyone can be like that, it's not wrong
only if they're gays, it's always disrespectful. If a hetero gets angry
at the mere idea of being the prey instead, when gays can be so sweet
and kind, I think it tells more about how bad they actually treat women
and how little they know about gays.
Just like heteros, there's all kinds of homosexuals... because in
the end, we're all just people. Decency is a matter of courtesy, not orientation.
Lesbians seem to be glorified as a threesome fantasy by men, which
is absurd since they don't want males... As much as I find loyalty and
exclusivity precious proofs of commitment and love; bisexuals have it
hard with monogamy, for it they have to give up half of themselves...
There's a good and a bad side in everything: It broaden the possible partners
but it can rip your heart apart. It's so difficult for gays. There's even
discrimination between homosexual men and women.
Heterosexuals find love so complicated as it is, they can't even imagine
the hardship that gays go through; they have no right to judge. We should
all do like pansexuals: to fall in love with the person
regardless of their crotch and torso. They welcome any combinations of
the body; they love the person's soul blind to their gender. They don’t
feel bitter about what they think it should be, they love
Everyone should try harder to understand and respect
There are sick perverts anywhere, even in the church! Being different
doesn't make you a bad person deserving contempt, hurting others physically
or mentally against their will does. Even the worst sadist with his willing
masochist is not immoral; but what priests did to innocent children, and
the church turning a blind eye keeping them as examples of morality, is
Everything is more complex than black and white; the surface is often
I don't like the prejudices against women any more than against gays or
anyone; even if I have my preferences, everyone are
free to choose
as well. Before calling me the weaker sex, try to
bleed in pain ¼ of your life! (I don't suffer anymore since I take
magnesium and vitamin C.) “Don’t trust a creature that bleeds
for 5 days and doesn’t die.” I love that joke.
It takes more strength to bear the weight of someone walking all over
you than to do the walking. But just push the asshole off you.
I'm both boyish and feminine, better with computers and science than make
up and dresses. We should do and wear what we're best
at and passionate about
; instead to force stereotypes on people
who'll feel miserable; making them accumulate frustrations into a ticking
time bomb of rage.
Why should wearing dresses for men be more disturbing than pants for women?
Some girls got killed for wearing them! It's just fabric. Take the time
to discover the person
before you get in bed
and you won't have unwanted surprises. Kilts
can be super manly, just look at him: cloakedanddaggered
With that kind of composure and self-confidence, I’m sure he’d
look virile even in a pink tutu.
Gays dressed like peacocks during parades can be disturbing, but any celebration
can be. It's not weirder than a sport fanatic, screaming hysterically,
with the colors of his favorite team painted all over his half naked body,
usually with a big beer belly. A woman dressed in latex is sexier aesthetically.
Genders aren't everything...
and a connection
are what's important. But it has to be mutual
you can't build a relationship from your efforts alone, even briefly.
That's why it's pointless to compel gays force themselves to be "normal";
which merely means average, it's based on the majority by ignoring the
two extremes of the bell curve. What a narrow view. Nature
Hair length stereotypes are pointlessly restrictive
as well. We should prone hygiene instead. Even short hairs can look dirty
when neglected, and long ones can look classy too~ I find them irresistible
on men. A girl can be very feminine with short hairs as well. To each
their own. In our history people died for freedom
we should at least have the right to choose our haircut without prejudices!
If you're a man, long hairs can harm your credibility in your career.
Being so close minded is wrong.
Men are considered superior but the pressure on them to live up to it
is all the more intense. It's not easy for either sexes to be imposed
a stereotype and discriminated against when we don't fit in the mold.
And most likely no one does; so we should all really drop
I have both genders blend equally in my personality, so it allows me perspective.
Being bi would make sense; but I'm asexual: sexually attracted by neither,
but I can feel affection for both. That was extremely
confusing growing up
I actually wanted to change sex to be acknowledged as a male, until I
understood that I don't need to get butchered to be
who I am
. I don't want to anymore; I'd miss the female part of
my complex soul. I want to use freely all of me: my emotional, rational
and even primal brain.
We should trust in the intellectual abilities and leadership of women.
We should allow men to be sensitive and let them ask for support. There
would be fewer tears into the world. Stereotypes only stop us from offering
our unique talents to the world.
We all loose something precious
I make do and respect the body I was given, I'm thankful for my health
and don't want to risk it because the operation can go so wrong. But I
respect those who do. It would be nice to have a body that fits with my
personality... puberty was extremely traumatizing, as my body grew in
another direction than my identity. I made peace
with that by accepting
But the reasons why I most wanted to get an operation are to stop being
harassed, assaulted, imposed a stereotype, be oppressed and be looked
upon as inferior. I wanted people to see who I really am, but it's not
my crotch that stops them, it's their prejudices; that won't change even
if I do, they'll just pick another justification. As a man, I'd still
have to fight to defend myself
, and women have
I can be myself inside any kind of bodies.
I have to do is to keep around me only the people who want to know me.
I won't tolerate to be forced to be what I'm not, no matter my sex, so
I might as well do it as a woman. That's important for everyone; maybe
gays are targeted more aggressively, or maybe just less subtly.
So I have sympathy for the struggles that gays have to go through to find
and accept themselves… and be respected
by their family and peers…
Attacking someone just because they kissed their loved one or held their
hand is pathetic. You should be happy that there’s less
competition for you
. Men are usually the aggressive ones (but not
always) and heterosexuals should especially rejoice that there are fewer
people to steal their woman, or kidnap and rape her. As a female I’m
extremely happy that there’s less predators out to get me. I like
the company of men but not their sexual harassment, that attitude even
made web design contracts impossible to continue. It made me feel like
a whore to be demanded sex while paying me. Degrading.
I've been harassed merely for wearing tick glasses; I'm -9.25/20... almost
half blind. The repetitive cruelty takes its toll. You really have to
be a weakling to torture a handicapped, clearly bullies'
opinions are not worth listening to
. It's just pointless; I can't
improve being bad when it's simply a fact that can't
. It's not a choice or a flaw, it just is! Narrow minded
people don't hide their stupidity in shame, and that's way thicker than
my glasses, so I don't have to either!
But I tried and I got severe eye infections wearing contacts; they didn't
allow enough oxygen exchange so veins grew threatening to blind me …
Now I do my best to forbid myself from giving a damn about people’s
opinions. It's hard enough without letting anyone make it worst. I
being able to see half.
Actually I can see like a magnifying glass really close, which is useful
to me; but I can't see far away in exchange. My vision range simply moved
closer to adapt to a need; so I think it's an evolution. It's very probable
that gays are too. Everything has a reason, even if
our reason can't comprehend it.
After 10 years waiting in vain for a man who'd treat me with a minimum
of dignity and respect
; and not just try
to use me as a sperm toilet... I chose a life of celibacy and chastity,
using my energy to reflect over my health with more important issues than
how to please the opposite sex like a slave! I
was born to live.
I’ve never been happier!
Why waste energy hating yourself and others, there's
so much to love in life.
There will always be someone who'll love and hate you; for both your qualities
and flaws. It has little to do with you and what you deserve... it's not
Feelings are about what people cultivate in their
THAT, you can choose.
Adam and God from infiniteunknown:
"Michelangelo’s fresco of God is a
detailed anatomic depiction of the brain."
Interesting, see the shape around God.
Cutest Chinese girl from ascportfolios.
Article about birthing issues.
Male guppy fish from aquariumfishhome.
Info about difference between sexes
Lisa Of Shades
29 August 2013
Edited: 31 August 2013
Edited: 1 September 2013